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Thursday, August 11, 2011

Does he OR she Match you ??

 In order for your relationship to be long lasting and happy, you should know the signs of are they the match for you.
                    READ THE SIGNS BELOW:
                                                  
                   Living Habits:
Both Living styles should be similar or at least compatable. Tolerable is [NOT] good because it just creates a build up that will blow up later. Make sure you both share similar views on how the house should be arranged and kept. (Example: Grocery, Friends over, Cleaning Views). If you are a Clean freak you dont want someone who KEEPS a messy area!
                  Social Circle:
Share your opinions and thoughts about each other's social lives. It is important to KNOW if your lover is uncomfortable with your friends or you going out without him/her. Come to an agreement of how much time you will both spend with your friends. SOMETIMES its good to ask a close friend you trust, BUT you cant trust Everyoen so its really your decision.
                  Emotional Levels:
Take a look at what emotional level each of you is on. An emotional person needs a person who is just as expressive and in touch with their own emotions so that they can understand the other's and give them the emotional support when needed. If [less] sensitive, they should partner up with a person who has a similar side. An emotional person who pairs up with less sensitive person, will ALWAYS or [often] feel like they are not cared for and that the less sensitive person may not really love them. The less sensitive person may also feel that other is too emotionally dependant and therefore feel smothered.
                   Sexual Doses:
Observe your sexual routines and see who initiates and wants more sex. After figuring that out, find out if the person who initiates craves it less or just likes being pursued. YES, Some females crave sex more then other females. If one of you desires sexual activity much more than the other, it will cause future conflicts and cause a TURN OFF, possibly leading them to having an affair. [WE DONT NEED ANY MORE CHEATERS] So match yourself with someone as Sexual as YOU are.
                     Extra:
You might do Everything together at first, but as time goes by, really see if the two of you can relate in activities and outings. If you both enjoy going out and doing different things or enjoy relaxing at home, then you are on right track. If a couple, however, you like staying home most of the time while your partner always wants to go out you are in for ALOT of arguments, lonely time or a break up. Make sure you have an over all agreement on how you enjoy!

(This is [just] an overview of how you can Critic a "Soon to be Relationship" before you put your all into it and turns out to be what you THOUGHT it would be)

**SHOOT FOR THE STARZ**

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